Nobody Can Define You

When someone does something to hurt you or wrong you in some way, it's easy to let that destroy your whole mood for a given time. Whenever we as humans get hurt, it's not something that we easily can let go and forget about. Depending on how bad someone hurt you, you may try hard to forget about it, but there's always memories that come up, questions that form in your mind, and thoughts you just can't shake off. I think one of the hardest parts about when someone hurts you is the fact that you can't trust them again. You may doubt all their motives, their actions, their words, and them as a person. It's extremely hard when you have to see that person frequently or they meant a lot to you in the past. Everybody has their own way of dealing with hurt and with the people who hurt them. I still haven't figured out a good way to move past things. I don't have any advice on how to move on with your life, or how to forget about what happened. However, I do know this: that person and the action he or she did to you, does not define who you are as a person. If somebody hurt you after you trusted them and after you were there for them, you may feel almost worthless. You may feel like you didn't deserve it, or wonder what you did to make them want to do this to you. But no matter how much hurt and pain you feel, it doesn't change who you are as a person. Everybody has their own beliefs in this world, but my personal belief is that God has a purpose for everybody. I believe God has called people to do things…great things…things that we can't even imagine. And no matter what anybody does to you, it doesn't change God's calling on your life. It doesn't change what you are capable of accomplishing, and it doesn't stop you from succeeding at anything.